Over the last 11 weeks, Mark and I have started running together. (For those of you who know me...I'll give you a moment to pick your chin up off the floor.) I said that we started running NOT that I love it, or even like it. I actually hate it unless it's that feeling you get when you are DONE. That's when I love it. God has brought me many insights while running (maybe jogging would be a better term) and I thought I would share a few with you over the next few days.
Lesson 1
I am utterly amazed at how much Mark can talk. During our jogs, I am not able to talk. I have to concentrate on my breathing since I struggle with side aches. I've learned to listen to my husband. I've learned that he's a very wise man. I've learned that I don't need to talk. I've learned that I get frustrated when I can't talk. I've learned there's wisdom in silence.
Lesson 2
We typically run at night after the kids are tucked in bed. I love running at night because no one can see me and it's a lot cooler. However, running in the dark, there can be lurking danger. We need to be well aware of cars. Most drivers assume people aren't out running at 9:30 p.m. When cars approach, Mark always makes a point to move me to the curb. It's subtle and he may not even know that he does it. A true act of a gentleman. It's his way of protecting me. Guarding me. He's telling me, "I would rather get hit than you." How often does God do the same for us while we are walking through life? We may not be aware of the danger. We may choose to play with danger. And sometimes our gentleman, God, steps in and moves us to the curb.
Stephanie-
Glad your husband runs with you. I ask mine all the time and he no interest. Talking will come with time during your runs. Once you start talking you will realize you are getting in better shape. In my opinion talking helps you get in shape quicker. I have run for a lot of years and don't like running at night because of the crazy drivers. You guys might look into reflective shirts or a vest.
I know what you mean with your oldest. My Maddy started 5th grade this year at the Middle School. Can't believe she gets on a bus with HS kids. Her schedule has been hard to adjust to as well 7:20am to 2:25. We had to make the decision if she was old enough to go home by herself for a few hours. Shelly (Hillsdale Alum)
Posted by: Shelly Eggleston | September 24, 2009 at 07:45 AM
I miss your blog!
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